I was going to do a blog post about, “Where’s Waldo?” but that will have to wait. I have to get something off my chest.
Here’s an email that I just got:
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Hi Nancy,
I hope all is well! My name is Yutaka Yamamoto and I’m with Oracle’s Business Intelligence and Analytics team, as well as a new member to the RCN account management team.
I wanted to reach out, introduce myself and see if you have time in the next few weeks to have a conversation. My goal is to put myself in a position to best help and to be leveraged as an Oracle resource.
Would you have time for a conversation in the next few weeks? I look forward to hearing from you!
Regards,
Yutaka Yamamoto
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Where to start with this travesty?
1. No concern for privacy.
I get that if I sign up for a conference that I will probably be inundated with stupid emails from other companies since conference mailing lists are always shared. In this case, all I was guilty of was having an RCN email address.
RCN obviously shared my email with Oracle. Why? RCN must be desperate for money, since they sold their customer data to Oracle.
2. Totally irrelevant.
So I have an RCN email address. I use it to send emails. What on earth does that have to do with Oracle and what they do? And if by some miracle I was interested in Oracle, I know enough to go to their website and find what I need.
3. Annoyingly presumptuous.
Why on earth would I want to have a conversation with a total stranger who has just invaded my privacy? I am so annoyed at this travesty that I was inspired to write a blog post about it. I will also be posting my displeasure on other social media outlets.
4. Downright scary.
Yutaka is part of Oracle’s Business Intelligence and Analytics team. Mmmm, Intelligence and Analyltics – what that says to me is that Yutaka wants to know ALL about me and my web habits. There is a reason I always browse in private windows and always delete my cookies when I close my browser. There is no way on earth that I will give information to a company like Oracle!
I suppose there is one bright spot; the email was personalized. Although I am not surprised since it appears that RCN has sold my data to Oracle.
The end result of this is that I’m cancelling my RCN account. We were thinking of doing that anyway, but this just clinched it.
When will companies learn:
1. People buy from people they trust. Lose this trust and you’ll lose customers.
RCN just lost us as customers. We have been with them for 14 years. How dare they sell our information to another company? Yes, I get that what you put on the web is not private, but at least give me the choice on whether I want my information shared with other vendors.
2. If you annoy potential customers, they won’t buy from you.
As a matter of fact, with all the buzz about social media, this strategy may just backfire on you. People are usually compelled to write about bad experiences more so than writing about good experiences.
3. If you make customers uncomfortable, they won’t buy from you.
Don’t creep out customers or potential customers. People have varying comfort levels with how much information they are willing to share. Why anyone would willingly give Oracle insight into their habits is beyond me. I don’t see Oracle offering anything in return.
4. If you’re not relevant, you are wasting your time.
I still don’t see the connection between having an email address and a hardware/software database company like Oracle. Oracle is completely irrelevant to my life and needs.
Do you have any marketing horror stories to tell?
Privacy image is from Private Internet Access.
sdalton43
March 25, 2015
I completely understand your distress, Nancy. Thanks for spotlighting this invasive practice.
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Nancy Loderick
March 25, 2015
Hi Steve,
Thanks for your comment. At least I feel better now since I got it out of my system. I just wish there was a way to stop this.
Nancy
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Professor VJ Duke
March 25, 2015
Yes! Glad you had speaks about this. We should declare war on these people!
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Nancy Loderick
March 25, 2015
Hey Professor,
I love it! War on the evil ones! Even though I’m all about peace, love and all that, this warrants a war!
Nancy
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Our Life In 3D
March 25, 2015
I have Customer Service horror stories Nancy but I am not in your type of position. Yes the volumes of unrequested, annoying, spamish marketing inquiries just remind me of someone with no career path passing the time by sending out (fishing) as many emails as possible in the off chance that someone might actually believe and or need their product or service.
I still don’t know what I am going to do with this $1.8 million in the bank that I have from some Nigerian prince hoping to move to the US.
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Nancy Loderick
March 25, 2015
Hi Andy,
Yes, those Nigerian prince emails are classics, aren’t they? They must get some response since they keep sending them! 🙂
Nancy
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tonyasmithauthor
March 25, 2015
Some people are always looking for something . What’s in it for me seems to be the mantra.
WIFM. That is very annoying Nancy.
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Nancy Loderick
March 26, 2015
Hi Tony,
Yes, it does seem to be all about the WIFM? When will marketers realize that this attitude will not sell any products?
Hope you are well.
Nancy
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jaysentrueblood
April 1, 2015
Thanks for the like. I have also been amazed at how companies tend to not want to play by the rules of etiquette.
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Nancy Loderick
April 14, 2015
Hi,
Yes, it is quite sad that companies don’t follow the basic rules of etiquette. They are losing out on a lot.
Nancy
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loujenhaxmyor
April 12, 2015
We now have a land line phone message that begins with “If you’re a telemarketer, please hang up now, otherwise… “– And it has saved us from answering and eventually brushing off the caller. Of course, many on line purchases result in these same marketing emails. Nice post, Nancy.
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Nancy Loderick
April 14, 2015
Hi Lou,
Great idea to fend off telemarketers. I always have to shake my head and mutter a few curse words when the telemarketers call. We’ve been on the “Do Not Call List” for years, yet the spam calls keep coming.
Nancy
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Wendell A. Brown
April 15, 2015
I so agree with you as I always get something from someone who could be trying to do some identity theft or any number of things. Thanks for sharing Nancy! I erase my cookies also!
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Nancy Loderick
April 15, 2015
Hi Wendell,
I’m glad to hear that I’m not the only one who erases cookies. Some may call us paranoid, but I think it’s the best thing to do to avoid tracking.
Nancy
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