Hello there! This is Nancy’s dear husband, Mr. Ken, sitting in for Nancy for a few weeks as she recuperates from her recent shoulder surgery to repair an injured rotator cuff. She was thrilled when I offered to be a guest blogger for a few weeks until she is able pound out her own blogs once more.
I know that Nancy has mentioned many times about my handyman abilities around our house and I thought this would be a great topic for my first guest blog. I really love doing my do-it-yourself (DIY) projects around the house! I find that once the job is done just knowing I did it myself gives me a sense of accomplishment that lasts and lasts. In this blog I want to share my enthusiasm and knowledge with you and, hopefully, get some hesitant folks out there to give it a go yourself!
My story begins back in NJ when my parents bought their first house – a genuine fixer upper. My dad was comfortable doing this as he was the quintessential DIY. He could fix anything. Carpentry, plumbing, electrical, automotive, you name it. Growing up, I watched him redo bathrooms, rewire / add electrical circuits, enclose porches and on and on. I assumed that this was the way it was in most other households too. You didn’t hire someone, you did it yourself.
So my dad was a huge role model for me. While he didn’t specifically show me how to do stuff, and sadly he died when I was in high school, he did instill in me the confidence to believe that I could tackle almost any project if I wanted to. Today it makes me happy to know that this part of my dad is still alive and well in me and my two brothers, who are also very handy.
I guess you could say that my early experiences with DIY jobs were baptism under fire. After my dad died we assumed his role of the home repairman as best we could. As things wore out / broke in our old family house, we just figured out what needed to be done and did it. It helped that we inherited some strong spatial abilities from my dad so we could look at something and figure out how to replace it. For example, we did this when the front and rear steps rotted out and the old stall shower in the basement rusted to pieces. We took a deep breath and forged ahead and it turned out surprisingly well!
While I had many early successes with my DIY projects, as time went by and I wanted to tackle more involved jobs like home wiring, appliance repairs, etc. I realized I needed some education to learn how to do this. In part two I’ll explain the different ways I learned how to do more complex, specialized repairs.
What DIY stories would you like to share? I’d enjoy hearing about them!
Bon Repos Gites
April 28, 2021
A great first post which I can relate to. Nowadays folk tend to call in contractors for even small jobs or a little wall-papering but it would never have crossed my father’s mind to do so. Same with the car; he would do everything himself – fitting turbo-chargers, electrifying the door windows etc. Funny how times change.
Sorry to hear that Nancy is poorly. Please send her my best wishes for a full and swift recovery! I hope Sirs Oliver and Angus are keeping her tea-cup full! π
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Nancy Loderick
April 28, 2021
Thanks Colin! I appreciate your good wishes. And my English/Scottish buddies are helping a lot. π Hah – anything to distract me from the pain of recovery. Ouch. π
I hope all is well with you and your family. Once my arm is a bit more comfortable, I will be back to reading blog posts from my blogging friends like you.
Nancy
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Bon Repos Gites
April 28, 2021
You are very welcome!!! Glad to hear that you are being well looked after. Take it easy and get well soon! π π
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Ken Loderick
April 28, 2021
Thanks for your comments! My dad (and mom) also did lots of wallpapering as did I.
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Bon Repos Gites
April 28, 2021
You are most welcome!! Good to ‘meet’ you! Stay well! π
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lmctaggart2013
April 28, 2021
Nice to hear the voice of Mr. Ken! DIY skills are something of a lost art. I remember many nights of watching my dad rebuild carburetors on our kitchen table. Did I absorb even the slightest bit of automotive repair knowledge? Alas, I did not.
Nancy, I have known others to get that same surgery and know that recovery can be very hard and long. Good luck to you – I know you’ll be very good about doing your physical therapy, which should make a big difference. At least you don’t walk on your shoulders. However, your kayak will want them in good working order.
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Eileen
April 28, 2021
Great story Ken. All our dads were Jack of all trades. I remember my mother being disappointed at times because all she wanted was something new instead of just fixed! I never knew what a repairman was until I was an adult!
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Ju-Lyn
May 1, 2021
Welcome, Mr Ken! So nice to hear from you. I, of course, have known of you as Nancy speaks of you often.
Thank you for sharing your start in DIY – role models are so key in getting us interested & started in our passions, aren’t they? Looking forward to reading Part 2 of your story.
Please send Nancy my best & a great big hug, and wish her a speedy rehab & recovery!
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Ken Loderick
May 2, 2021
Thanks for your nice comments Ju-Lyn!
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