As I have gotten older, I have come to really appreciate the simple things in life. Like the power of a nice phone call. October has been a tough month for me, it is the month of my Mother’s birthday and also my birthday. I have been feeling a bit melancholy.
October is a busy month and my Harvard consulting project starts up in full force. For the past few years, I invariably had a project meeting in Cambridge on my birthday. My dear Mother always insisted that I stop by her house after my meeting though so that she could give me my birthday present on my actual birthday. Although she was housebound for the last few years of her life, she always gave me nice, thoughtful presents. She was very good at ordering things over the telephone!
I celebrated my birthday with Mr. Ken and two of my cousins. We went to lunch at the Wayside Sudbury Inn, of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow fame. It is in the country and the ride out there was glorious.
Later that afternoon, my best friend, Lisa, called me to wish me “Happy Birthday.” I love talking to her because she always makes me laugh. It was a perfect ending to a rather bittersweet day. Thank you Lisa! 🙂
What simple things give you joy?
Image of phone from Talkingpointz.com.
Bea dM
November 2, 2016
You’re right about phone calls, and you’ve reminded me I should make an effort to say hi to a number of people. Busy days rush by and evenings I (mistakenly) feel I’ve earned the right to shut out the rest of the world… First year is very tough, but your Mom’s anniversaries will gradually feel more like happy remembrances…
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Nancy Loderick
November 2, 2016
Hi Bea,
I know what you mean. I start out the day with every intent to make a few phone calls, but before I know it, evening has arrived and I am too tired.
I should take my own advice. 🙂
Nancy
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Bea dM
November 2, 2016
Yes, follow my example, ’cause I’ll take your advice 🙂
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lmctaggart2013
November 2, 2016
My mom was just here visiting me for a week. We had such a nice time, and reading your post makes me realize all the more how lucky I am to have her with me. Thank you!
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Nancy Loderick
November 8, 2016
Hi Laura,
Yes, treasure every minute you have with her. In the last few years, I spent a lot of time driving her to and from doctors’ appointments. I even enjoyed that time with her!
Nancy
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Aliosa
November 2, 2016
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Nancy Loderick
November 8, 2016
Thanks Aliosa! 🙂
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Aliosa
November 8, 2016
Regards,
Aliosa ! 🙂
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