So the annoying pains on the bottom of my feet turned out to be a bigger deal than I had hoped. I had surgery last Friday to remove a large neuroma (nerve growth) on the bottom of my right foot. I also had two large cysts removed, one from my right foot and one from my left foot. Ouch. Needless to say, my recovery will be a long one. It’s kind of hard to get around when you can’t use either foot to walk. But anything is better than the constant pain I have been feeling.
I am fortunate in that a world-class hospital is right in my hometown. It is five minutes away. Everyone there is just so nice. If you’ve ever had to be a patient, you know how helpless you can feel. In the operating room, everyone there introduced themselves; there seemed to be about twenty people in there. There were two other doctors, in addition to my surgeon. They both looked to be about 12 years old. I guess one thing about getting older is that everyone looks a lot younger.
I have had a lot of time to reflect as I am recovering from my surgery. Here are some of the lessons I have learned:
1. Express gratitude.
I have so much respect and admiration for medical professionals. They have tough jobs, caring for people who are not at their best. I make it a point to be respectful and always say thank you to them. I try to address them by name, as long as I can remember their names, which can be tough sometimes.
I am also so grateful to have access to great health care. I never take this for granted.
2. Speak up if you need to.
There were a few minor blips during my stay. A few minutes after they put the IV in, my hand started turning really blue. Now, I am no medical professional, but I know that when a body part turns deep blue, that is not a good thing. I immediately spoke up and it was taken care of.
I was asked a number of times my name and what I was having done. I didn’t mind at all, after all, I wouldn’t want to go into surgery expecting a foot operation and coming out with my appendix out. There was some minor confusion as to all the excisions, but the doctor cleared it up.
3. Be patient.
I am not a patient person by any means. I have had to learn and re-learn patience. It takes me a LOT longer to get around, since I can’t do my usual speed walking. At first, this really got to me, but I am learning to take it a step at a time. Doing more meditation has helped me a lot too. I am becoming much more attuned to my body and my emotions.
4. View obstacles as stepping stones.
This quote is thanks to my fitness idol, Jessica Smith. Obviously, I can’t exercise like I want to. Even if I tried, I would seriously injure my foot and have a set back. I am trying to go with the mindset that, “something is better than nothing.” I can sit in a chair with my foot elevated and do kickboxing with my arms. I can also do upper body weight work. I can focus more on meditation and quieting my mind. I can get in more reading. There are lots of things I can do during this downtime.
5. Appreciate the little things.
After a few days of living in sweat pants, I decided to get dressed in “real” clothes. I felt so much better! I actually don’t like wearing sweats all the time, but I had to since the bandages were so thick. Sweat pants were the only things that fit over my feet.
Monday, I had my post-surgery appointment. Even though I was going out for a five minute trip to the doctor, I just loved being outside in the sunshine. It felt so good on my face.
I also keep in mind something the nurse said to me before the operation, “Don’t do any online shopping for 24 hours since your mind is still not totally clear. You don’t want to end up with a lot of mysterious packages from Amazon arriving at your house next week.” I am laughing thinking, this should apply for the weeks after surgery. After all, when boredom strikes, what better way to deal with it than to do some online shopping. 🙂
So what about you? What life lessons have you learned lately?
Peter Wells aka Countingducks
March 21, 2018
Very well said but most of all I hope your recover from the surgery soon and get to enjoy your new pain-free mobility 🙂
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2018
Hi Peter,
Thanks for the good wishes. I hope all is well with you.
Nancy
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ourlifein3d
March 21, 2018
Sorry to feel you are down Nancy. Yes, recovery time is often a good time for reflection. ….like how much you should be pampered right now! When I was down w my 3x hernia last September I had in my mind I would be 10lbs lighter and running 7 minute miles by now. 🤩 I hope you feel better soon!
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2018
Hi Andy,
Hah – I like your visualizations. Yes, at this moment, I am picturing that I am will be out running marathons when I recover. Never mind that I haven’t run in years, it is fun to dream.
Nancy
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ourlifein3d
March 21, 2018
lol….but “if only….” darn foot. I hope you can enjoy the rest of your weekend Nancy. Take it easy!
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the retrospective entrepreneur
March 21, 2018
Not sure I’ve learnt any life lessons todays, but best wishes for a speedy recovery – you need your mobility!
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2018
Hi,
Thanks for your comment. Hope all is well with you. And you are so right, I do need my mobility, especially as a very hyper person!
Nancy
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Judi Brady
March 21, 2018
I truly hope this recent surgery will bring you much needed relief ,so you can return to your active lifestyle! You are inspirational in how you always find ways to be resilient !
Having been recently in the hospital for a week and also experiencing some “blips”along the way, I learned that I underestimated the extremely difficult work that nurses do (and Drs,), their exhausting work ,and dealing with vulnerable patients who are not always at their best. Like you ,I came away with such gratitude for the amazing staff who got me through a most difficult time.
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2018
Hi Miss Judi,
Thanks for your comment. I know what an “adventure” you had in the hospital. I am glad that is all behind you now.
Looking forward to seeing you next week!
Nancy
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Ralph
March 21, 2018
Get well soon dear Nancy 🙂 ❤
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Nancy Loderick
March 22, 2018
Dear friend Ralph,
Thank you. Hope you are well.
Nancy
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Eileen Feigenbaum
March 21, 2018
Oh so sorry to hear this. Best wishes for a speedy recovery. Bet Ken’s going to be in very good shape after carrying you around the house for a week or so!
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Nancy Loderick
March 22, 2018
Hi Eileen,
Hah – good idea to get Ken in shape! He is getting his workout in with all the fetching and carrying he has to do for me. 🙂
Nancy
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sdalton43
March 21, 2018
Nancy, I hope you heal quickly and completely! Blessings! – Steve
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Nancy Loderick
March 22, 2018
Thanks Steve! I hope you and your family are well.
Nancy
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Bill Sweeney
March 21, 2018
Hoping for a quick and full recovery, Nancy. Great post.
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Nancy Loderick
March 22, 2018
Hi Bill,
thanks for your comment. I am glad you enjoyed the post. I sure enjoy writing them. 🙂
Nancy
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JUDY RODGERS
March 22, 2018
Hope your recovery is quick and painless. I know not getting all the exercise you are used to is likely tough to deal with, but sounds like you are making some wise compromises. It is a good time to read A Gentleman From Moscow! Take care Nancy, Judy Rodgers
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Nancy Loderick
March 22, 2018
Hi J udy,
Thanks for your kind thoughts. Mr. Ken read “A Gentleman from Moscow” and really enjoyed it. It is on my list.
Hope you are surviving all the snow. This last storm was a non-event for us, for a change.
Nancy
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Ken Loderick
March 22, 2018
I think that the coffee ice cream that I bought for you is what did the trick!
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Nancy Loderick
March 24, 2018
Dear Mr. Ken,
Yes, coffee ice cream is good for whatever ails you. 🙂 Thanks again for buying it for me.
Nancy
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Bette A. Stevens
April 10, 2018
Wishing you a full and speedy recovery, Nancy! 🙂
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Nancy Loderick
April 11, 2018
Thanks Bette! 🙂
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