I don’t know about you, but I tend to get too wrapped up in what is wrong in my life. I try to practice gratitude on a daily basis, but sometimes it gets away from me. I admit it; I envy people who have good jobs; I envy people who can take nice vacations; I envy people who are happy all the time. The list goes on.
Something very nice happened over the weekend. I was able to take a step back and really appreciate the goodness of people.
If you’ve read my previous post on, A day in Nancy’s life, you will note that my Mom and I go out for coffee at a local bagel shop called, “Bagels Best.” We are good friends with the owners.
One of the owners, Sharon, wears these really cool looking bright green sneakers. My Mom always compliments her on them. Sharon mentioned that she orders several pairs at once. It turns out that Sharon and my Mom are the same shoe size, so Sharon brought a pair in for Mom. How nice was that?
Mom was floored and has been wearing the sneakers every day since then. She was happy to wear them on Monday, St. Patrick’s Day.
I really wanted to show Mom wearing the shoes, but given her aversion to having her picture taken, you’ll have to be content to see the shoes. Mom is the one on the left. Aren’t they cool?
So my lessons learned from this very pleasant experience:
* A small gesture of kindness can make someone’s day.
* People are good and will surprise you.
* Stop being envious of other people; you just don’t know what their lives are really like. Okay this has nothing to do with the green sneakers, but it is reminder to myself.
What unexpected acts of kindness can you do to make someone’s day?
Peter Wells aka Countingducks
March 19, 2014
That was a lovely thing to do for your mum, and I agree, the smallest gestures really can make a difference
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Nancy Loderick
March 19, 2014
Hi Peter,
Thanks for your comments. Yes, I am even more convinced that even the smallest gestures can make a big difference. Something as simple as smiling at someone can make their day.
Nancy
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Professor VJ Duke
March 19, 2014
I love the sneakers!
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Nancy Loderick
March 19, 2014
Hey Professor,
Yes, aren’t they cool? I bet they glow in the dark. 🙂
Nancy
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sf
March 20, 2014
Whoa, a free pair of sneakers?! What a way cool bagel shop! Love that you go to a bagel shop regularly for coffee with your Mom! So happy for her for having received such a pretty and awesome gift!
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2014
Hi sf,
Yes, I thought it was pretty cool too that Mom got those sneakers.
Nancy
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Joshua Idemudia-silva
March 20, 2014
Nice post Nancy, life is more interesting when you appreciate what you have, and try to make the best of every situation that comes your way without bothering about envying others. I guess after this kind gesture your Mum really would find it hard to dump that coffee shop for another one now!
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2014
Hi Joshua,
I’m so glad you enjoyed the post.
Nancy
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Ken Loderick
March 20, 2014
Cute story and a nice post Nancy! I look forward to seeing the green sneakers in person!
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2014
Hi Mr. Ken,
Thanks for your comment. I’m sure you’ll see the green sneakers in person very soon since Mom loves wearing them!
Nancy
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CBurns
March 20, 2014
I love this story 🙂 My husband and I always say the news should be reporting more stories like this one! PS Your mom looks really good in green 😉
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Nancy Loderick
March 21, 2014
Hi Cheryl,
Thanks for your comment. I whole-heartedly agree with you that the news should focus on the GOOD that people do, instead of the bad. I really believe that there are more good people out there than bad. You’d never know if by the news stories though.
Nancy
P.S. Mom just loves the sneakers; she’s been wearing them every day. 🙂
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Judi Brady
March 21, 2014
What a lovely story ! It is so true that even small kindnesses can spread big joy! I am pleased for your Mom.
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Nancy Loderick
March 23, 2014
Hi Miss Judi,
Yes, I am constantly amazed at how small acts of kindness can really make a difference in someone’s life.
Nancy
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